Why that coach's teachings don't work for you

Has this ever happened to you?

You’re inspired by someone online, who’s offering either a free training, or a paid program?

You see them living an amazing life - tons of money, they seem powerful and like they’ve manifested amazing things for themselves. 

Yet when you sign up… 

And you go through the practices and trainings they offer…

Something doesn’t feel quite right. 

There’s this niggling feeling deep down, that this isn’t the right path for you. 

Your ego might fight it and say: “That’s just your resistance! Look at the life their living! This obviously works! You’re just not devoted enough!”

You may even seen many other people in the program thrive with amazing, results, and you wonder… “What gives?”

Maybe you experienced some shifts, maybe you got inspired from some of the content, but ultimately… the shifts didn’t last. And you feel like you arrive in the same place as when you started?

So… what’s going on?

Ok - so for me to explain this, we need to talk about Divine Templates. 

Every soul has a Divine Template, our a Soul Blueprint. Think of this as the sacred geometry and etheric grids, of how that soul’s energy is designed to optimally function and emanate. 

The Divine Template of your soul is also encoded with your soul gifts, your soul’s destiny, and much more. 

Now imagine, that there’s a divine template for EVERY area of your life. This is designed by your Higher Self and your I AM Presence. 

There’s a divine template for your soul’s mission for this incarnation, a divine template for your perfect financial reality, and divine template for your perfect partnership, and so on and so forth. 

Now… imagine that someone has activated their divine templates, or at least certain aspects of them. 

As an example, say this person is here to embody the templates of the Divine Masculine, and best manifests their Heaven on Earth through intense focus. Journaling, visualizing, and working towards a goal, all feel really good to them - because their soul templates are resonating with that Divine Masculine focus. 

Now imagine… they say… “I’ve cracked it” - They begin to manifest abundance, money, and amazing opporunities. 

Victorisouly, they say “I’m going to teach this, I know what works!”

So they offer this amazing program full of how they did it. 

A 5 step process for journaling your dream reality into fruition, a meditation to visualize your perfect outcome, accompanied with lots of Divine Masculine energy that says “Go go! You can do it! Let’s crush this!”

The program works for many people who also are here to seed a Divine Masculine template. 

But let’s say there’s a soul who’s here to seed Divine Feminine templates. They haven’t had many lives on this planet, and they’re very Pleiadian in nature. Their divine templates for manifesting heaven on earth include lots of time in nature, breathing in the emerald ray of abundance, and trusting Source with all their being. They manifest through presence and an open heart, with lots of surrender to the Divine Mother. 

But…. This soul hasn’t fully owned that yet. Society doesn’t really encourage these templates yet. 

So they sign up for the program I just explained… and feel deflated after spending thousands on something that simply gave them anxiety. 

Why?

THEY ARE RUNNING VERY DIFFERENT SOUL TEMPLATES. 

And what the coaching industry hasn’t quite figured out yet, is you can’t just teach someone else your own divine template, and expect it to work for them. 

That’s why the most transformative experiences I’ve had, in my investments, have been in journeys that activate MY truth, MY soul light, and don’t get me to follow another person’s step by step program. 

Yes, my most incredible transformations have happened when I’ve invested in Priestess journeys and spiritual mentorship - that’s main focus is to activate me to ME. To unveil my own divine templates, and get me to trust them. 

That’s why I’m so excited about The Rainbow Ray School of the Angels. 

In this journey, we’ll be working with the colour rays and flames, and the Archangels - to activate your Divine Templates. 

We’ll primarily be activating the Divine Template of your Soul, which is one thing the angels specialize in. We’ll also be working with the following colours to activate other divine templates that your Higher Self has designed for you. 

The result? You TRUSTING your own way forward. You are here to seed new realities from your Higher Self. Only communion with your Higher Self, and the embodiment of your Divine Templates, is going to bring that about in it’s full potential. 

Who Am I To Teach This Work?

I've been in Crete, a sacred Goddess island in Greece for the last week, and everything is finally slowing down in my life. After being in perpetual summer for the last 8 months, through Costa Rica, Mexico, NYC, and the Greek Islands ~ Fall is here, Samhain is just days away, and I have the space to really feel into those niggling feelings, that were easier to ignore, while I was constantly moving around from place to place.

As I prepare to launch my new journey The New Earth Entrepreneur, I've noticed I've been stalling.

Ideally, by now, I would have opened the energetic space with ceremony, and I'd have been working on the invitation page, to invite people into the experience.

But not a whole lot has gotten done.

Today I felt into the resistance.

I heard this voice come up from my lower chakras ~ which I've been hearing for days now say ~ who am I to hold space for The New Earth Entrepreneur? The true template of the New Earth Entrepreneur has fully plugged in to Source for all their needs. They recognize they ARE Source, and live courageously and confidently from that place of Source light. They're no longer plugged into 3D patriarchal business models ~ of seeking validation from social media likes, and of seeking feelings of safety from the numbers in their bank account. They're a pure conduit for Source Light, and so is their business.

I know ~ while I can feel this template within my being ~ I still have so much unlearning and untangling to do, before I'm an embodiment of that being.

So “WHYYY”, this aching feeling inside of me said ~ “Am I the one whose being asked to hold space for this work?! How can I possibly hold a whole program around this, if I'm not fully there yet?”

So I put on my ‘Sensual Slow Dance’ playlist and I just let my body move. I let her speak. I let her express the pain of that question, and the resistance of where I am on my journey. And after just a few minutes, a clear voice spoke to me.

It was my soul.

She said "BETH ~ Do you think Kaia fully activated her crystalline genome, before she started teaching about it, and how to turn it on?

Well… no.

Do you think Alize fully healed her womb, before she started holding space for other women to go on their womb healing journeys?

Hmmm… no.

Do you think Tori healed every ancestral wound, before she started teaching others how to heal their ancestral traumas?

Ummm… no.

“Well there you go."

I realized that the teachers who I've learned so much from ~ I haven't transformed from their teachings because they are embodiments of the FULL AND TOTAL HEALING of that thing they teach about.

I learn from them because they are authentically devoted to being a student of that line of work, their Higher Self has guided them to.

I recognize that I've been DEVOTED to unlearning 3D business programming, and a new paradigm in business, money, and healing, for YEARS. I've transformed SO much, from this path, and I've helped hundreds of other souls along the way.

As I swayed my hips, and felt my soul's assuredness still pulsating within me ~ I recognized that I was the ideal person to be teaching this work.

Not because I'm the living embodiment of what it means to have entirely activated The New Earth Entrepreneur codes.

But because I'm authentically devoted to the path.

Because I've been walking the path for years.

And because these are the codes my Higher Self is downloading through my body.

My Higher Self holds this template, and I'm here receiving it on this planet.

Bit by bit, I become more activated in this new way of being ~ in business, and in life.

I share this, in case you've had similar moments. Of questioning ~ Should I really be teaching this? Am I a fraud? Is my work legitimate?

Angel ~ If you are devoted to walking the path you teach from ~ authentically ~ and you've already experienced transformation from that lineage of healing… then yes. You are legitimate in your teaching of it. You are safe in receiving for it. For as long as you continue to walk that path with authenticity and devotion ~ YOU are who SHOULD be teaching it!

Thank you for receiving me!

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The patriarchal underbelly of the spiritual coaching industry

I think when we’re marketing online, it’s important to ask ourselves, “How do I want to make people feel?”

I know, I know…

This goes against the whole “I’m empowered, I don’t care what people think, it doesn’t matter how I make people feel, it matters I speak my truth!” kind of vibe.

But here’s where I’m coming from…

I want to help people to feel like they’re already good enough. Right here right now. I want to help people ADORE themselves, and the Source light within them.

The thing is: I see a lot of people posting from a shadow place... That shadow WANTS to feel good enough, so the ego overemphasizes what it thinks makes it loveable ~ and ends up making people feel diminished when they post ~ ego speaking to ego.

For example… this vibe is really in right now…

“OMG I made $20k this month!! Look at my amazing life right now! Oh my god don’t you kind of wish you were me living this life??? No problem just sign up for my course!”

Now… the person sharing in this vibe may deep down want to serve people, and support people. And I’m not saying that all people who share their wins + amazing numbers are coming from this place.

However… a lot of them are, if we’re being real.

When we look at how this energy might make people feel, the answer may be…

It will likely make people feel like they haven’t accomplished enough, and they need to make some moves to be anywhere other than where they are. Where they are isn’t good enough. They need to change their life.

I believe that it’s this subconscious, and not so subconscious message that’s been at the foundation of patriarchal marketing.

“You’re not where you should be ~ buy this and that will change.”

So it’s not surprising these deeply ingrained templates are carrying into the spiritual coaching realm.

That’s why I said… I think it’s important we pause and ask,”How would I like people to feel in my presence?”

Is our marketing coming from a place of true empowerment ~ to likewise activate a place of true empowerment in our audience?

Or is it ego speaking to ego?

I’m not saying we need to diminish ourselves, or not share our wins. I’m saying… how can we communicate in a way that also respects that the person is just as gorgeous and beautiful and powerful as we are, in this now moment?

How can we speak in a way that highlights our unity, our power, and our shared inherent abundance?

Personally I’m really interested in conversations that uplift all beings. I’m ready to see the fall of hierarchal based programming and marketing.

What do you think?

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Having a Successful Launch Without Following "The Rules"

So... I recently had a launch that went really well, where I didn't follow most of the basic "rules" for marketing, or for selling an online course.

I'd like to share why what I offered (a journey on connecting with Dolphins + Whales) - was successful, despite going in the face of standard practices.

First... what are these standard practices?

Well.. you start with a "pain point". You feel into what your ideal client is struggling with, and then - you give a solution.

You basically promise or share that you can get them to where they want to go - their goal - and away from their pain point.

While I'm not against this way of doing things per se.. what I often offer tends to be deeply energetic, and doesn't necessarily offer a concrete goal, or solve a specific pain point.

(When I share my programs for growing your spiritually-based business, it actually makes sense for me to follow this model. My clients know they are meant to share their soul gifts with the world, and want to make money doing what they feel like they're here to do - but are overwhelmed / not sure of the way forth. I actually DO help them to reach their goal of having a successful, spiritually-based business.)

But for my other programs - like Dolphin Consciousness - this isn't the case.

We are in a program right now, where we literally meditate with Dolphins + Whales for 5 weeks.

While I personally KNOW working with these beings can bring big effects in people's lives - I cannot and am not interested in promising people what those effects are, specifically.

I'm not going to tell you working with dolphins + whales will make you 6 figures, help you land your soulmate, or any other popular goal.

So how the heck do I market a program with Dolphins + Whales? With no pain point to speak to? With no catchy goal to help people achieve?

Simple... Through FREQUENCY!

Here's the thing... Dolphin Consciousness is not something I liked the sound of. It's in my soul. It is the frequency of my spirit, in many ways. It took me years of deepening into my spiritual path to realize this.

And so... the Dolphins + my Higher Self actually told me to launch this journey. That it was needed.

My job was to embody the frequency, share about it, emanate it, and trust that the Dolphins would call resonant people in.

We had 33 women sign up for the journey - because I was able to embody a soul signature frequency that I carry - and there were women who FELT that, and knew that they carried that within them TOO. Their soul stirred as they connected with it.

So, my marketing was simply sharing frequency, and telling people, if they resonated with that frequency, that they were invited to dive deeper.

This would not have worked if I chose to launch a program that I liked the sounds of.

For example... some people are meant to be ancestral healers. It rings in their bones. I practice ancestral healing, but it's not a part of my soul signature to offer that kind of primal healing on a deep, collective level.

If I offered a course on ancestral healing, it would not have been NEAR as magnetizing, as Dolphin Consciousness was.

The magnetism is in your soul signature frequencies.

So...

My point with this is...

If you want to offer something that breaks the rules, to offer a program that doesn't have a definitive goal you help people with... you must know what frequencies your soul carries.

This is a deep work. It doesn't happen overnight.

But I promise.. if you find what your soul resonates with (for me, that's shown up as Dolphin Consciousness, the Blue Violet Ray - connected with Sirius, and Angelic Energies) --- and you really DIVE into those frequencies --- you let yourself be YOU --- and when it's time, you offer a journey to help others to connect with that frequency - it will be successful.

A huge part of having a successful, spiritually based business, is knowing yourself, knowing your own soul, and doing the deep dive work into your own heart, to know what the codes you carry, really are.

And when you offer your unique codes, value yourself, and your work - you will have success on multiple levels.

Despite any and all models that say - that's not how it works.

If you want to dive deeper into your own unique soul codes, check out my free e-book: Activate the Codes of Sacred Success, here: https://www.bethkatherine.com/activate-the-codes-of-sacred-success

On being a HOT MESS + also SUCCESSFUL!

I remember a client asking me once, if I ever went into fear when I launched something. I said... "DUH" 😜 and told her some stories.

Her reaction was hilarious, to me. She was shocked. She had this perspective, that - if I ran a successful business and had such strong intuition - my life must be pretty streamlined. Basically, she thought I had it all together.

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

This is hilarious. While I AM laser clear on my purpose, and feel pretty damn stoked about where I'm at in life... I can also be a hot mess.

I'm writing this is in a messy room (I wanted to clean, then I didn't. Then I wanted to clean again... and... didn't 😃)

I stopped my alarm at 8:30 this morning, and ended up sleeping until 10:30 - the latest I've woken up in a while. I went down the internet rabbit hole lastnight, rather than singing mantras like I'd planned, and went to bed really late.

I could go on and on about my hot mess tendencies. There's a lot of them.

But here's the thing... I LOVE and ACCEPT myself, in ALL of my colours + moods, and I choose to not believe things like "When I *BLANK*, then I will be successful."

No, I get to be successful now. So I am. ✨

And because the Universe agrees with the beliefs I hold - as it honours me as a powerful co-creator - my beliefs create my reality.

And so - I get to be a hot mess some days, and still be a bad ass business lady.

💎

Now... your turn!! :D

Are there any stipulations you're putting on yourself, before you're "successful"?

Maybe you need to eat a certain way, do yoga every morning, lose 10 pounds, or be another version of yourself - before you receive what you desire?

Instead - Are you willing to love and accept yourself, right here, right now? 

Are you willing to claim - you get to receive what you desire AS YOU ARE - while simultaneously expanding, changing and growing in healthy ways?

Because... THE UNIVERSE SEES YOU AS WORTHY, RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW!

THAT'S HOW NATURALLY AWESOME YOU ARE! ✨

BUT YOU NEED TO AGREE IN ORDER TO SEE THE MAGIC!

💎

I know sometimes this can be tricky, because our egos hijack us, telling us that if we accept and love ourselves as we are - then we'll stay there. And we want to grow.

But actually... if we love and accept ourselves as we are - we instantly dissolve shame and lower level emotions like guilt --- the very emotions that guide us to do things that don't serve our highest good. The very emotions that keep us in ruts.

When we judge ourselves for "not measuring up" - we keep ourselves in a loop of shame - making it more likely that we'll choose what doesn't serve us.

Loving and accepting ourselves, and knowing we're worthy right here, right now - is a radical path of ALIVENESS.

So basically... PLEASE ACCEPT AND LOVE THE HOT MAGICKAL MESS THAT YOU ARE. ✨

Are you willing to do that? Are you willing to embrace yourself as you are, and believe that you get to be successful, AS YOU ARE?! If so, let me know in the comments below, you radical being, you!!

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Marketing is not what you think it is...

Marketing is not telling someone about your product.

Marketing is building relationships!

When new entrepreneurs have an offering, they tend to jump on social media to tell everyone about it.

Ex. A woman is offering angel card readings. She shares an IG post saying: "I'm offering angel card readings for $X!" with a photo of angel cards.

It's not a surprise when these posts fall flat, and no one books.

Why?

Because, believe it or not, there's no marketing in that.

What would a post look like, with actual marketing?

That woman, might post something like this:

"Last fall, I lost my job. I hardly had any savings, and just 1 week after receiving the news, my landlord informed me I wouldn't be able to renew my lease, as she was selling the house.

I was shocked. Upset. Afraid. Angry. All of it. In a particularly low moment one afternoon, my angel cards caught my eye, they were on my desk, shimmering in the sun.

I felt a moment of hope, walked over, lit a candle, and gave myself a reading.

In that reading, Archangel Michael clearly showed up, and reminded me that my soul wasn't happy in the city I was living in. I'd been trying to suppress that. The clear guidance from the cards, was to use this time as an opportunity to move. It was a leap of faith, I had to put several expenses on my credit card - but it worked out. I landed an awesome job in my new city, and found an amazing apartment within 2 weeks of deciding to make the shift.

Angel oracle cards reminded me of my soul path. I'd love to offer you a reading, to help you discern what YOUR soul is saying. *Insert details about the readings.*"

THAT is a post with marketing! It's a post that allowed the reader to develop a relationship with the author and her story, WHILE provoking interest in her service.

So you see... Marketing is first and foremost, about building relationships!

Releasing the idea of $10k+ months as ultimate success

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ON RELEASING THE IDEA OF

$10K+ MONTHS

AS the marker

of ULTIMATE SUCCESS

IN THE

SPIRITUAL ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY

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...As humans, our root chakras have been traumatized REPEATEDLY.

We have thousands of years of ancestral trauma that's stored in the root chakra. We grew up in a patriarchal society that is SO disconnected from the Earth. We don't know how to listen to the land, read the wind for weather changes, etc.

Our root chakras are struggling to function optimally.

But our root chakras are our SAFETY CENTRES. An open, grounded root chakra, causes us to feel SAFE in our bodies.

Most of us (including myself) have root chakras that are still holding on to trauma... so what happens?

💎 We cling for safety in the material world.

💎 We don't even know we're doing it.

💎We focus on productivity and making money as our huge goals...

WHY?

In an unconscious attempt to feel safe.

To feel OK with being here on earth.

When really, we are CRAVING the EARTH, the medicine of PLANTS AND ELEMENTS, and for our own soul to be grounded in our bodies.

This tendency is everywhere, especially in the spiritual entrepreneur community.

It's still all about making a certain amount of money, as a sign of your success.

When really, we simply have a lot of traumatized humans trying to feel safe, who are trying to recover from their ancestors imprints ... WHILE going through massive collective changes and purging...

And we have their egos going... "I know! I'll just make more money! Yeah! That's what I need! That will make me feel safe and feel better! That's the climax that I'm desiring! More money! More success! Woohoo!"

But the cycle of MORE, I NEED MORE, never ends...

The thing is.. I AM ALL FOR MONETARY ABUNDANCE.

But it's a WHOLE different experience when you plug into the Great Mother as your Source and safety, and money is just MAGNETIZED to you, because you're reconnecting to the OG system of the cosmos and the earth.

💎 The system that has HARDWIRED within it, that we are taken care of.

I am VERY mindful of this difference (grasping for safety, vs grounded in the Great Mother), both in myself, and in clients.

I often work with clients, who just want to make that money!! More money!! Yes please!!!

And I remind them... money doesn't fix your wounds. Money doesn't solve anxiety from a disconnected root chakra.

(I've made a lot of money and still felt deeply unsafe)

As a community of spiritual entrepreneurs, let's focus on REAL HEALING!

Let's reconnect with the EARTH!

Let's make the highest goal INTEGRATION, and EMBODIMENT of our SOULS, rather than $10k months.

💎 Let's watch that money FLOW IN, as a natural symptom of Higher Self alignment. (Woohoo, let's still be making bank! Just grounded bank!)

WOOHOO! Who's with me?

Comment below!

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Everyone does it differently

🌻 Recently I read a post from a business coach, sharing that she makes her money through her call calendar... meaning, the free calls she gives out to potential paying clients. She relies on those calls to make her money.

🌻 I know another (multi-millionaire) coach, that *never* offers free calls, and hasn't for years. Her offers sell like hotcakes.

This is just one of SoOOooO many examples, that highlight: everyone does it differently.

🌻 Some swear by FB ads.

🌻 Some use YouTube.

🌻 Some write guest posts for online publications.

🌻 Some work Instagram, and learn how to use it effectively.

When we're paying attention to 10 different coaches, who grow their business in 10 different ways, it can get overwhelming.

But here's the thing... the strategy part of growing your business is not the most important part. 

Your energetics are. 🦄

Once you embody energetics that are open to receive, open to money, open to clients, and open to divine inspiration... The right strategy for YOU, comes through.

That's why most of my work with clients is working on their energy field.

You can try all the damn strategies in the world, but if your energy field says "I'm not worthy, I don't really believe that this will work." then... Poop. 💩

So, I suggest:

💎 Spend time shifting your wealth consciousness (I have a free course for that, join it here)

💎Ask your Higher Self to fill your cells and chakras, daily, so you can vibrate with divine energy + prosperity

💎 Say "God, USE ME!" often, and meditate, to vibe out on how the Divine wants you to serve

From there... You'll be more connected to your inner guidance, so you'll know. Ohh.. IG feels fun to me! Or.. FB groups feel ideal! Etc.

And from there, the energetics of your field will be what magnetizes clients to you. The strategy is the inspired action that came through, once you got aligned. 💓

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